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01 Pattern Guides
Your complete path forward.
Each guide is built specifically for one parenting pattern — the wound beneath it, what your nervous system learned, what your child is experiencing, and a full healing practice to begin today. Click "Learn More" to read the full overview, then add to cart when you are ready.
The Reactor Guide
The Protector of Truth · Wound: Denied
For the parent whose love comes out with force before they can stop it. The intensity is real. The shame that follows it does not have to be.
$47 · Digital Download
The Performer Guide
The Worth Seeker · Wound: Devalued
For the parent who does everything right and still feels like it is not enough. You have been doing everything right. And it is exhausting.
$47 · Digital Download
The Fixer Guide
The Harmonizer · Wound: Disregarded
For the parent who always has the answer and cannot stop stepping in. You have always had the answer. This guide asks what it would feel like to not need one.
$47 · Digital Download
The Withdrawer Guide
The Quiet Protector · Wound: Dismissed
For the parent who loves deeply and goes quiet when it matters most. You love them deeply. And sometimes the depth of it sends you somewhere they cannot follow.
$47 · Digital Download
Best Value · All Four Guides
The Complete Pattern Library
Every pattern, every healing path, one complete picture of how love moves inside families. Because most of us carry more than one.
02 Digital Downloads
Tools to support your daily shift.
Practical, beautiful, and designed for real life. These downloads are yours to keep and return to whenever you need them.
Ebook · Digital Download · Kristine Lackey & Kimberly Cotton
Before You Lose It
Ten Moments Every Parent Faces, and the Practice That Changes Everything
Every parent has a moment when love starts to feel like it is not enough. The yelling happens. The shutdown happens. The distance grows. Before You Lose It meets you there, moving through ten of the most common and difficult parenting moments, and using the L.O.V.E. Framework™ to guide you beneath the surface and back to connection. This is about returning to the parent you already are.
$11 · Instant Download
Add to CartAudio Download · Set of Two
Daily Morning & Evening Meditations
Give yourself permission to slow down, reconnect, and come home to you. These morning and evening meditations are simple practices, each under 15 minutes, that help you gently break old patterns and invite in new ways of being. Start and end your day with presence, clarity, and compassion.
$11 · Instant Download
Add to CartEbook · Digital Download
Coming Home for the Holidays
The holidays can stir old stories, reopen old wounds, and test even the strongest hearts. This guide invites you to soften, slow down, and return to what matters most. Through the L.O.V.E. Framework™, Kristine and Kimberly guide you through the tender spaces of family, belonging, and self-compassion with warmth and practical wisdom.
$9.99 · Instant Download
Add to Cart03 The Journal
The work, in your hands.
Paperback · Available on Amazon
The Shift Happens Journal
A 90-day guide to transform your patterns and strengthen your self-confidence. Real change does not happen overnight. It happens in moments — small, honest agreements you make with yourself and repeat with intention.
Rooted in the L.O.V.E. Framework™, this journal helps you deepen your relationship with your goals, your habits, and yourself. Four core focus areas. One anchor goal. Ninety days of becoming.
$19.99 · Paperback
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What is inside
04 Gift Cards
Give the gift of the shift.
Digital Gift Card
Shift with Love™ Gift Card
Know a parent who is ready for something different? A Shift with Love™ gift card lets them choose exactly what they need — whether that is a guide, a meditation, the journal, or anything else in the shop. Delivered digitally, redeemable immediately.
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